069: Clients with High Expectations

A common challenge for SE Practitioners is accommodating clients who have high expectations for the success (or failure) of this work. Too often immediate demands from either the client or practitioner curtails curiosity, participation and permission to engage with a process that necessarily takes time to develop and unfold. In this episode I look at some of the considerations we can hold while accommodating high expectations in our

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007: Musings on the centrality of a neuroception of sufficient safety

…uations. We’ll run for our lives if we have to and digest our food while chatting all night if we get to. The perception of what the situations demands or allows is made by our organism, at an involuntary level, and it centers around the question: how safe am I right now? β€œIs it okay for me to engage, or should I be fighting or fleeing or immobilizing like an ice cube?” They call that assessment process…

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