075: Finding Your Own SE Voice

…ncing is extended time repeating and mimicking other peoples words, voice, rhythm and presentation. This โ€œcopy cat timeโ€ is probably necessary. There are so many patterns in our work that require our extensive practice before they become our own. Once they do become our own, once we hear our own voice and expression coming in to guide our sessionsโ€ฆwe should give a cheer and turn that way. Even if it includes quirks of our own…

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074: Helping Clients Get to Know You Quickly

consistency of our signal and feedback to our clients is key to helping them get to know us and our work quickly. The more random, confused or inconsistent our requests the harder it is for our clients to find security and success in our offices. This reflection doesnโ€™t go into all the nuances behind helping our clients get to know our work but it does look at this issue of consistency and offers a few ideas on where to apply it. <a…

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089: Technique or A Feeling

Techniques and technique generally is key to our success as SE Practitioners. Being able to identify what is happening for a client, what that indicates about what is coming next, having some sense of what to ask for next, all of these are necessary to move sessions in the right direction.

And yet, other times there will be a dramatic unfolding that happens simply because the Practitioner has โ€œA Feelingโ€ and follows it. In

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